difference between living alone and being left alone

There is a difference between living alone and being left alone.

Living alone means you don't have your people around you but you have them somewhere in your life who care for you and for whom you care , you have people with whom you share everything .

And being left alone is the situation in which you have lots of people around you but no one is with you and no one is there for you even they don't care for you.

But most of us don't know the difference between these two situations .

People think that living alone means enjoying their  own company ,they don't need anyone in their life  and don't care about others.and they think it's cool and modern.

From last few months i have observed that  on social media there is a trend going on  in which people think if they pretend that they are loner and they don't like to socialise with people around them ,they look more cool and modern.

But there is a fact , people like to live alone until they end up  being alone.

Nowdays people have developed an attitude in them that they like to live alone and they don't want to socialise with people ,they don't want to go outside ,they are good with themselves. and what they do whole day is  just scroll social media and trying to show how cool and modern they are.

And gradually they stop talking to their friends,they stop talking to their relatives ,even they don't talk much with their parents,and at the end they lose the bonding and love they once had .

They like to talk with others only when they need something form them and in return others do the same thing with them,and then these kind of people talk shitty things on social media like  "World is full of mean people","They only remember you when they want something from you".

Also people have developed a negative attitude in themselves  that they are always right even if they are wrong .but because of ego they never admit that they are wrong .

And they have also developed this attitude that they don't care  about others and what others think about them.

If they are doing something wrong but it seem good in their vision then they are right and it doesn't matter that it can make trouble for others, the only thing matters is that they seem right to themselves so they are right.

And they don't care what others have to suffer because of  their action.and in return other people do the same thing and when others behave same as them ,then they get hurt and then they start thinking "no one cares about you" .but in reality this is the reaction of people according to your behaviour towards them .

And because of this, people lose all the love and bonding that they had with their friends and family just because they want to pretend cool and modern and for this they tried to live alone and then they end up by being  alone.and now they have the same people around them who used to care for them but  because of less interaction and rude behavior ,now the care less.and this rude behavior of other people  towards you is just the reaction of your behavior towards them.

And the day when you will realise that there is lot of people around you but actually you are alone,will be the worse day of your life ,from that day you will start feeling that there is no one for you and then  you will realise that the people who were used to be your friends and family left you alone.and from that day you  will try to find people with whom you can share your loneliness.

So stop going with social media trend,try to spend some time with your friends and love ones.

and at the end for the people who think that world is full of mean and selfish people,

NO, it is not like the way you think about it .

World is simply a mirror in which you see the image of yourself .

                                                            -Today's truth

                                                             (Harshit Saxena)